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        I have always wanted know something.. how others would do..

        Like Mariah Carey says..
        Someone you are so devoted too..
        He/she calls you and says.. "i care for you, but im just not in love"

        Be non-chalant about it?
        Go through extremes to prove you are fine without them..

        So what do you do when someone you are so devoted to, suddenly stops loving you?
        and it seems they haven't got a clue of the pain that rejection is putting you through..
        Go through extremes to prove you are fine without them..

        Do you break down and cry and say the last goodbyes?

        Do you lash-out and say, "how dare you leave this way?

        Do you hold on in vain as they just slip away?

        I really would like to know what you would do?
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        Hi imagin,

        It is never easy to be rejected. It has to be one of the hardest blows to take. How many times i have often said........it would never be this painful if i had been the one to break it off first. Part of that is our own egos.

        I really think it depends on the circumstances. If there was signs that the end was coming than its easier to digest. It's when we are clueless that it hits us like a ton of bricks.

        No matter what the circumstances are losing someone is never easy. I think the reactions are similar to experiencing a death. It is a death.......first there is shock, then sorrow....then anger before we can heal.

        I was rejected once when i was in a relationship........i went thru all the phases you mentioned.

        I'm not sure if your question is a personal one or not. If its something you are going through i am very sorry and feel your pain. You will survive imagin. You have alot to offer.....and who ever gets you will be one lucky man!!

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        Imagin,

        Break down and cry :'( for days and hurt for a while, then push on!

        My heart is so full of love, I will never let the pain caused by another stop me from giving full love to someone else! God put this love in my heart to share and I will do and have done just that! I have no enemies(that I know of ) because even in the worst most painful situation, I don't get mad at the person, I take it as a life lesson and in some cases thank them for helping me to see I deserve better! And it doesn't mean the person is a bad person(sometimes they are) it just means they changed. And your purpose together has been served and that is not a bad thing, it is just life even when it hurts!

        When you have put your best foot forward and it isn't enough(for the other person) than you should be able to walk away with peace all in you!  Take it for what it was(is), build upon it, learn from it and keep it pushing!

        I love life and people and one monkey don't stop my show!

        I don't know if this is what you are going through or not, but if so you are strong and you will get through it. Stay close to family and babies(they bring so much joy, they are natural healers of the pained heart)

        I hope this doesn't sound like I am hard, because I am the biggest cry baby in the world, but I like being happy much more than sad so after so long of being down, I am up and doing things that make me happy! Smile through the pain, it will get better!
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        Imagination....

        I have been rejected plenty.  You do what you need to do to get by.  Cry, eat ice cream, gamble, shop, hit a pillow, etc.

        Then live the best life you can.

        My two cents. 
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        Well, I never got "Connected" after my last one..So I don't know how it is anymore.

        I'd probably walk away with a shrug, but then again I mioght have gone into the relationship like that and that's a receipe for a break up.
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        Girlllllllll,

        I cry and cry and cry until I have no tears left! Oh and never ever talk to them again.  That is the only way I can actually be alright.  Because at this point who cares what "he" wants, it is all about ME!!! hehe
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        what i do is not what i would suggest u do...therefore i think it is best i not tell you and let u do whatever it is that u need to do to get u thru...but if u should ever be in need of a good chuckle or laugh...u know where i can be found...i can always try...just promise me u will laugh and not cry....cuz..if u cry...then i cry...next  everybody cry also..then..LCB not Latest Casino Bonus..LCB become Lotsa Cry Baby... aiyah...sorry...i stop now.

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