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        You all know i love doing this hehe.. I always say.. a man can never figure out a woman.. but us women got you men down packed!!

        Men's Secret #1 - He Doesn't Always Want
        To Spend Time With You.

        He might tell you, over and over in
        fact, that he loves spending time with
        you. And that might lull you into
        thinking that the more often you spend
        time with each other, the stronger the
        relationship becomes.

        That's true and false at the same time!

        It's true that spending quality time
        with each other makes the relationship
        stronger. But spend TOO much time with
        him, and he might start feeling
        suffocated. And he's going to want to
        get away from you.

        Usually, he'll give excuses such as, "I
        can't meet you on Wednesday, I'm
        watching a ball game," or "The weekend's
        not good for me -- I'd like to rest."

        It's just a polite way of saying, "Right
        now, I'm not in the mood."

        But don't get mad at him -- after all,
        taking care of a relationship takes a
        lot of energy, and you'll want to give
        your man some time to relax.

        My advice? Don't pressure him to meet
        too often during the week. Often two
        meetings a week -- a dinner during the
        workday and a longer date on the
        weekend, for instance -- is a great
        balance.

        Men's Secret #2 - He STILL Thinks About
        Other Women.

        When you catch your man throwing glances
        at other women while you're at the mall,
        don't get mad. Sure, he may find them
        hot, but he's not about to LEAVE you for
        them!

        It's much the same way you find soap
        opera actors attractive. You look at
        them, you admire their good looks, and
        you may even wonder what it would be
        like to have such a great looker as a
        boyfriend.

        But do you go ahead and leave your
        boyfriend for the guy?

        No, right?

        I hope not!

        Men's Secret #3 - He STILL Loves His
        Freedom.

        No matter how good your boyfriend may be
        to you, it's likely that he had a good
        bachelor life -- and secretly wishes to
        experience the fun he used to have while
        still single.

        That's why your boyfriend doesn't seem
        to miss you all that much, especially if
        you meet more than twice a week. He's
        finding his "free time" a lot more
        enjoyable.

        But don't get mad if he does. Instead,
        let him enjoy his free time. After all,
        absence makes the heart grow fonder --
        and he'll miss you more if he hasn't
        seen you in three days than if you just
        had a date yesterday!

        Men's Secret #4 - He Secretly Doesn't
        Want You To Do Better Than Him
        Financially

        Naturally, it's always a good thing to
        advance your career or grow your
        businesses, especially as the big "M"
        word gets recited more and more in your
        relationship.

        But secretly, he likes it better if he
        was making more money than you were.
        It's a guy thing -- after all, it's been
        Mother Nature's design that the males of
        the species brought home the bacon,
        while the females cooked it.

        Now how would a guy feel if his
        girlfriend both brought home the bacon
        AND cooked it?

        The best way to avoid this problem is to
        NOT talk about your job, your
        businesses, or your stock portfolio too
        much. If you know you're making more
        than he is, don't mention it.

        Instead, try to encourage him to grow
        his own career. Ask him constructive
        questions, such as, "You've been working
        hard lately. When's the promotion
        coming?" or "I see you like fixing
        things. Ever thought of turning that
        into a little extra cash for yourself?"

        Men's Secret #5 - He Loves You More As
        Time Goes By.


        Hard to believe, huh?

        But seriously -- he DOES tend to love
        you more and more as time goes by.
        Several scientific studies have shown
        this.

        Here's the thing -- he just doesn't tell
        you.

        Which, of course, is a good thing. How
        would you feel if he told you, "I love
        you more today"? Naturally, you'll be
        wondering, "Why? You mean you didn't
        love me as much yesterday?"

        Men know it's risky to tell you that
        they love you more as time goes by. So
        they don't say it.

        The problem is that some women worry too
        much about this. They worry that the
        "loving feeling" may be slipping away.

        Of course, the WORRY actually makes it
        worse!

        Whenever you worry, you cast a shadow of
        gloom over the relationship. Even if you
        don't tell him you're worried, he'll
        sense it. And it'll make him feel
        uncomfortable in the relationship.

        So here's my tip -- get rid of the
        worry. Focus on the positive sides of
        the relationship. After all, whatever
        you focus on GROWS!

        source:Alexandra Fox

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        Putting on the former psychologist's hat here.  I agree with all 5, but number 4 is becoming far less common.

        The BIGGEST one I saw in my counseling practice was number 1.  God help a guy who likes to do his "own thing" when he marries a woman who wants to go around joined at the hip!
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        So you beleive men would rather NOT have their woman all up under them constantly?

        You know, i have dated and have had friends including my own daughter date men that won't let us out of their sight, it's like every 5 minutes.. ooop there he is with "what you doing" "where you going" "i need something" or the phone rings constantly.. so what is up with that?
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        yeah, Lips...I can't even get up to go pee at night without the third degree.  You would think after so many nights, so many times, he would not have to give me the "where ya going" "what are you doing" stuff.
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        #4? of course i want my partner to make more...less work for me but with the same amount of beer money
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        I think the same secrets apply to women! Everything a man desires here i feel the same way if the shoe was on the other foot.

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        Doc, I'll put on my Einstien cap, just because I can't spell Frued, (Sigmund). Yes it's sad, when a gal believes she has to be joined at the hip with her man. But we must not forget, the male species, can be just as demanding, not wanting the poor gal to leave his eye sight. Finishing, then you'll have couples, where the two of them, just can't seem to get enough of each other. Here's the bottom line to this, and I believe you'll agree. We're human beigns, thats right, supposedly the most intelligent, strongest creature on the planet. Unfortunately, any good Doc will tell ya, we're flawed. These three issues I mentioned, are all fixable, some people can fix it on there own, others will need help. Years of help, unfortunately.
        I believe we're all of at least average intelligence or better here in the forum, and I'm not sure why I wanted to put on the Einstien Cap, ( I pretty sure I have drain bamadge). I guess I probably went through a bit of this, way back 70's. Anyway it's called Co-Dependency, believe it or not. It's just as crippling as drugs, or alcohol, if left un-checked.

        Anyway it's Halloween, Everybody have a good one, win lots of money, get lot's of Candy, etc.
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        Imagine, yes there are plenty of clingy men. 
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        ricorizzo....good comments.  Yes, we are all different, and "healthy functioning" has many looks and styles to it.

        You hit on the key point.  It is UNhealthy when it is codependency.  A husband and wife may be joined at the hip and YET remain very self- differentiated.  This would be rare, but it does occur.  I stand on my premise that most jointed-at-the-hip couples are codependent, however....and will probably raise kids who gravitate toward codpendent relationships.

        Look at it this way.  A joined-at-the-hip couple have a daughter.  They are joined at the hip because they have "no life" appart from each other.  This will highly influence the daugter's life the same way = have no life and overly cling to another.  Now, do you REALLY want to be the guy who marries this woman?  And have these folks as inlaws?  If you do, "family management" will be very, very burdensome. 
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        Doc, we're on the same page. You being the pro, me being the one who lived through it. I'm sure you'll agree, we're all Co's anyway, to a certain extent. As long as we're aware of whats going on and it doesn't control us!
        And hell no, I wouldn't want to be in any type of a hanging on relationship. It's truely a sad thing to witness, if we want to  talk as pros. lol

                   
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        Ahhh...I remember the therapy days when I was practicing!  Wife swears up and down their relationship is WONDERFUL.  "We do everything together! My spouse is my best friend!  We never make a move without each other!  We are soulmates!" 

        Husband confesses he plays along, feels sufficated, secretly downloads porn by the gigabit, and employs midget escorts when he is on business trips.
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        I seriously don't mind it, i'd like having a clingy man.. (it doesn't need to be overboarded though at least let us use the restroom alone) the thing is. is if they secretly DON'T want to be clingy or up under us constantly why do they do it? Are we as women doing something that compells them to do it?
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        I must have married a Klingon (cling-on).  For real, during the daylight hours I can't use the toilet without him waltzing in.  And if, God forbid, he gets out of the house ever, he calls me 5-6 times a day.  He's called twice while I was writing this!  Maybe I'd appreciate it more if....oh well, if I couldn't write a book about his bad behavior.  Make that a series of books! 
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        If I may, chilly, an Imagin.cal It's only a problem, when it affects both of you.( I'm sure your aware I'm speaking of you and your mate). If one wants to be the klingon, and the other doesn't mind, then theres no problem, simple.
        Unfortunately, in the long run, other issues develope. However, I'm not saying this can or will happen to you too. Couples go all through their natural lives, happily married, kids, white picket fence, etc, lol with this issue, not coming into play.
        If I may, I was the Klingon, years ago. I think about it today, I was miserable. I couldn't let the gal out of my site, If someone looked at her the wrong way, oh boy, the cops had to be called.
        The only way, that type of a relationship can work, is if the gal can take charge, and run the show. this wasn't the case, for me and the whole thing dominoed.
        See, it all gets back to fact we're humans, and where one person or a couple,  flop their mop a certain way, that doesn't mean the next person or couple, are going to flop their mop, the same way. Peace, luv, n spare change. this topic has tired me a bit, sorry
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        You're right ricorizzo.  I too used to be the klingon.  Now, though, it's like all I want is breathing room!  Jake and I don't have the best of relationships, and I also find he gets over things (flip-flops) in minutes and it takes me days.  So, for me it's hard letting him be all clingy and touchy-feely 3 minutes after he just did some horrible manly thing or another, doesn't work.  And he can't ever seem to just stay away from me long enough for me to get over the issues and cuddle.  I'm starting to hate that word, and that sucks, cuz I'd love to cuddle with a cuddle-able husband!  So I spend all my time pushing him away.  And it's only when he goes away that I start wanting him to be around.  Dumb, I know. 

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