My ex wants to get hitched again.

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        I have been divorced 7 years and to put it mildly we had irreconcilable differences. We get along much better since our divorce and are bound together by our son. She is the mother of my child and there will always be in my life. One thing led to another and we ended up spending the night together a few months ago. She is now talking about tying the knot again. I am on the fence because we never much got along while we were living under the safe roof. Is remarrying the ex a good idea I dunno.
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        Oh wow, you're in a pickle liquorman. There are so many factors there. Some of those issues will return as soon as you get back together. Have you learned that you can't live without them? If not, the reasons it didn't work before will creep back in. Much time has passed and it could definitely work. I'm excited for you if you go for it.
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        The fact that you are even thinking about it is a pretty good indication that you still love her. But is love enough to weather the storm and can you move past the problems that destroyed your marriage in the first place. I think it can work and i am sure there has been plenty of couples who have remarried. Sounds like a pretty special relationship after 7 years that feelings are still stirring.

        Good luck with whatever decision you make and let us know so we can throw ya a LCB forum bachelor party 
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        That's a tough decision, have you tried living together for a bit before taking that big leap again? An there is also the fact of the affect it will have on your son if it doesn't work out again. I am a hopeless romantic and hope it truly works out for you both! Good Luck. 
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        It could work but I agree with fried-eggs, you should experiment living together for a while before putting pen to paper again.
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          I'm inclined to go with the majority.  Live with her for at least a year before getting hitched again.  Perhaps the lack of a marriage certificate will keep you both "on your toes".  I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out, whichever you choose to do 
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          Hmm... such a difficult decision. Exes are exes for a reason and I know I wouldn't go back to where I've already been. All my memories are very precious to me and I mostly remember the good stuff but, at least for me, that's not the reason to go back together with someone but then again, I've never been married I don't have a child.

          You just need to be clear with yourself what you want and I  hope that you'll be happy either way.
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          I personally wouldn't go there again. You got divorced for a reason but ifd you like you still love her and might be able to work things out, why not try dating again and go from there, you don't have to jump into marriage again.
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          exes are exes for a reason...jus' sayin'
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          Any new updates Liquor?
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          Hey fried eggs the ex is like a tall glass of Jack Daniels that keeps refueling me with mixed emotions. We went to dinner a couple times and she made dinner at the house for me and our son. No hanky panky has gone on (yet). It is an awkward situation considering we were once married. We haven't even so much held hands. I am treading slowly and she is taking more the initiative. It is a roll reversal for what we once were. I ain't getting any younger and there is slim pickins these days. I want us to want each other for the right reasons and accept who we are faults included that drove us apart. I will keep lcb in the loop as to how it goes.
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          It's good that you are making sure that you want each other for the right reasons and not because it's slim pickins as you said. Don't settle. I hope it all works out for you! Definitely keep us updated.
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          Good I'm glad to hear you are taking it slow!
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          hope everything is working out gl

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