The In-Laws.........

I've had the vicious ones, and the indifferent ones, never any really good ones, darn it, and I've been married 4 times.  One father in-law referred to me as "that woman you married" to my husband.  My current mother-in-law might as well be a store clerk, and calls me "your wife" to my husband.  Rarely talks to me.  No problems, just no communication at all. (she knows she gave me a stinker for a husband) 

His mother is a Gemini with two sides. She can be sweet as pie one day then a descendant from hell the next. Makes it hard to recognize the sweet side when she has been such a "you know what".

Both of my in-laws are deceased so no problem for me. 

Usually I get a good laugh out of it when I think of those times.  It could be worse.  My mom used to always call Jake some other guy's name when she saw him.  She was just confused, though.  If she wanted to insult him she'd call him jackass.  All my husbands and boyfriends throughout history have had that pet name from my mom.

I choose to ignore my in-laws, except my sister in-law who is a nice person. I told the others that I have no obligation to them just because I love their daughter/niece. I chose her, not them, so we shouldn't feel obliged to have a social relationship just because of that. Sounds harsh but I wanted that to be clear right from the start!

I LOVE my inlaws.  My MIL means the world to me.  They have been generous and kind and helpful in ways that others could not be. 

The in law......... :'(
no words can even describe about them but this might.

I told my mother-in-law that my house was her house, and she said, ``Get the hell off my property.'-----this is my mother in law.

Sometimes it's so hard to pretend not remembering the same things she is repeating but she already told me over and over again.