What is SEX....

Hmmmmmm...going for manicure tomorrow and taking my dark suit to the cleaners! 

Oprah Winfrey hands down

She has so much money!!!

Also, my girl ;-)

socks in sandals are always always a crime

what  i look for?
one of the biggest "proofs" in a relation imo are when u gan get bored together.

ofc looks matter and is 99% a first milisecond of what we see about a person.
but whats hot or not, what we like or dislike are fortunally uniiqe to us as persons.

id like a woman that after 10-15-35 years still is surprising me, and i could sit and talk to for hrs at the breakfasttable.

and... i like to wake up with someone that looks like they did the night before.
makeup can be great, but overdone, its just like socks in sandals

What appeals to me, physically..
I love long hair on men, mustaches and goatees
Eyeglasses, but not looking nerdie lol

Mentally.. i am so wild and crazy so one that can keep
up with me!
Sense of humor is always good
Also one that will give in and spoil me, because i'll do the same

well when I walked up my hubby's driveway, that was it !  Love at first sight (according to him).  I was attracted to him too but hesitant. I soon found out that his inside was just as hot as his outside hehehe.  We have now been together ten years.  Yesterday we just celebrated our 4 year wedding anniversary. We have had up and downs like everyone does.  He has gotten a little broader in the belly as have I (although I would never admit it).  As far as I am concerned he is just as sexy as he ever was...and that has nothing to with physical appearance.

sex appeal is what i would call skin deep...where as attraction is what sustains...what attracts me at first is a woman's sex appeal. i can't pinpoint one thing as it varies from woman to woman...sometimes i can't even explain why i'm attracted..i just am.....but then..when you see pass her sex appeal...remains the question..am i still attracted? maybe even more attracted? or has my attraction now gone and before me, beside me, everywhere i go is now this....person that keeps nagging, whining, pinching, tickling, grabbing, sticking....and finally annoying.....person that just won't go away!!!! =)

oh..and so...without attraction holding things...it's gonna be a rough ride...

attraction is what sparks love, it draws attention to one another..if it fades...so does all else...well...it seems that way so far in my life...

Sex? Been awhile since i had any and by now i forgot how

guess i forgot about "loyalty" just came natural to me, so i i didnt think to even mention it i guess.

We can think we know someone inside and out, but you never truely
do, this happens alot.
The best of the best can betray you, married people for 25 years
come to find out that husband or wife hired a hitman.. just an example.
I wonder is it our own fault, did we miss something?
Like Lip says.. its so rare, to me i think it's impossible to
really KNOW someone, so you are left with instinct and chances
Paying attention, "i should of paid attention because something
told me to" is the lyrics to a song by Lauren Hill called "Ex Factor"
I think its a good thing to do. We know in our own hearts and soul
we can be loyal, but trying to get to know if your partner is
can destroy the relationship..(the things we do to pursue the trust and honesty) i guess can offend another.. if you know what i mean

Cobra....i know this is the part where i go....hehe hoho haha right? Sex can be found on any street corner.....i think what im looking for is a little deeper than that (no pun intended).

The loins may call but the heart of the matter is missing. Which poses a question to peeps. Are most men in it for a good time? Are women more emotional with physical intimacy?

You guys have to admit..........c'mon one nite stands are just not the same thrill........or is it?

Lips

I have stayed away from this for quite awhile now, but figured I would weigh in.

Love and Lust are both 4 letter words, and have their own stigma. What creates either condition does not have to be entirely compatible (nor desired) when applied to each other.

For the simple act of sex, a mutual attraction and lust are all that is required. Sometimes, yes, that one night stand can have an intensity and footprint on the ceiling effect that leaves you breathless... this in no way implies that the partner will be one you wish to share the responsibilities of child rearing, joint checking accounts or moonlit walks on the beach. It just is what it is, and at That Moment in time... is truly all it needs to be.

Love on the other hand, for it to have a lasting resonance, should have some aspects of that same Lust in it's mix. The physical attraction can be overruled by the head to recognize the other great qualities of your partner, their intelligence and sense of Humor, Honor and Self becomes in it's own way a heady aphrodisiac.

For me, I want it all... I want the hotel manager Knocking on the door asking us to keep the noise down... I want to have to pay the bill for breaking the bed (and the nightstand, and the ironing board, and flooding the bathroom, and .... Just and.

I want to wake up every morning Lust in My mind, Love in My heart and a Partner who is just as enamored as I am...

I was fortunate enough to marry that one.

Something about a girl's smile just gets me. It's the first thing I look at.