What MEN want from women.

Okay, "turn about is fair play."  Let's focus a bit on what men want from women.  I'll go first.  Ladies, feel free to send me hate email after reading this 

1.  Tell us what you like about us.  A little compliment goes a long way!

2.  We like a woman with a sense of humor.

3.  We do like to cuddle......no, really we do. 

4.  Retain your femininity in some fashion.

5.  We do like smart women.  Dumb ones are only good for....well....you know!

6.  Very few of us like to go shopping, so don't think we are monsters when we don't want to go with you.

7.  We don't get a lot out of going to your parent's house and just sitting there all day.

8.  Tell us we did SOMETHING right, even if we just had several f-ups in a row.

9.  We need our time to unwind, to spend time with sports or hobbies, and hang out with other men.  Doing these things does NOT mean we are having an affair, hate you, or quitting on the relationship.

10.  Similar to number 9.  We don't have to be joined to your hip to be madly in love with you.

What about your lady doing the starting in the bedroom every once in awhile?

YOU ARE SO RIGHT...NOW WHERE ARE THEY HIDING VERY WELL PUT KIND SIR U GOT IT GOING ON KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.

SANDBABE

Doc.. do you have any idea what you are up against?

Imagin.......Yes....I may have to go into hiding!

I agree with most of those demands..

Sense of Humor.. we don't think it's funny when you roll up a wet towel and snap our butts with it

Cuddling.. us women will cuddle just to cuddle.. but the men cuddle because they want something... be a little more genuine with the cuddle, cuddle to cuddle!

Retain our feminity... we do.. except when we have to fix the plumbing, wash the car, take out the trash, mow the lawn, clean out the fireplace, scrub down the BBQ... and you won't let us do it in our daisy dukes

What smart man is going to be out with a dumb woman? Mhmm ain't nothing but the dog in him.. just gotta chase the cat... Smart women don't appreciate smart men that go out with dumb women..

Shopping.. we bring you along because sometimes we run out of money and need a back-up.. so if you don't want to go just hand us your whole wallet and we will happily be on our way..

To be honest .. i'll agree with the parent thing, that goes both ways..

I agree with the time away.. us women like our alone time too... and when we do spend time away.. no it's not another man...

I'd prefer to be joined in another place...

Lastly.. Doc, I will give you this compliment.. I appreciate your courage in setting forth some communication, giving us some points to think about.

Doc! Do not care about Imagin...

I will promote you to professor

Doc...
Some great expectation and I hope that you will meet/find someone who can reach your wishes...maybe not all but as nearly as can be... Wink
It's funny to see that it seems we all want something different from each other but in the long run, at the end, we,men and women both want the same things after all...
Respect, caress, wisdom, understanding, compromise,sincerity,assurance,support...etc and let's not forget the feeling of bonding!
But the thing is,I think,we won't be able to find that someone who meets our eye levels and what's more the older we get, it's harder!
I have found myself seems always falls for a man who is wise with his words, tends me when I m not well, gives me assurance of feeling protected...but most of the time I feel for a man who is in trouble-lol...and I still can't figure that out why...
I asked many times why don't I simply fall for men who has money,good looks,educations,jobs...
But unfortunately, I have never been attracted by any man just because he has all above...
I shoot for a man who is good with/to children and animals...to me, that proves that he has a good heart...
Someone told me once, the biggest of my problem is that I tend to be always settled for less and I won't stop trying to make things better even if impossible...Oh well...

I know I am all those things and more.  Or can be if not with a jerk. 

I feel sometimes like the only person in the world who knows and tries to live by the Golden Rule.  In case you don't know what that is, anybody, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

Sounds kinda like what everyone should want in a partner.  Maybe I'm wrong.

Wnanhee.....I liked your post....well thought out and articulated.  (And keep posting pics of you in tank tops!!!)

  Everyone should have figured out that us men like to be taken care of in certain ways(not just sex).  Such as when we are bedridden sick some pamering is nice.

And if we admit that we hurt ourselves (usualy that means I am seriously considering going to a doctor) belive it even if you cant see it. Please don't ask us to do something that involves repeated use or streaching of the effected area

  My girlfriend had the pleasure of passing a kidney stone once, she thought she was going to die.  Even though I have not had the pleasure, I assure you it usualy like giving birth to a sharp spikey crystal that lasts for days.

Doc...

I like you too...feelings are mutual!!!
And I think you are one of the bravest man in the earth...
You challenge us,women in many different levels with knowing what you are up against.
I have a feeling that behind all your intelligence,coolness and strength, you are the man with the softest heart deep inside!!!

Sigh~
Lips...if you were a man, you would probably had me at HELLO...
You re just so amazing with your words...you say things what I always want to say and when to say the right things about almost everything.
Whomever beside our Hazel(wink), sit next you will be the luckiest man in the whole world!

Loyalty and Trust.. so beautifully said Lips.. Those are rare traits, like diamonds surrounding the ring of life... when it's there it sparkles brightly and holds together in harmony.

We aren't perfect people.. Loyalty and Trust also falls in the arms of the eyes that can cradle the imperfections and see these imperfections as perfect..

Loyalty and Trust.....ALWAYS good!

And yes, intelligence.  Men may like a dumb gal to date.  But being married to a dumb woman is NO fun.

Intelligence is a must, I asked my husband what is the most important quality in a woman for him, and he said being able to trust them. I agree, I trust him and he trusts me. We have been through hell and back, but we still stood by each other.


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[OKAY I ADMIT IT ALL WE REALLY WANT ARE



BOOBS

favirite size may differ from man to man




Uhhhh...Errrr

did i say that outloud...uh oh

Chemistry between two people really can not be summed up, because without the parts that irritate/irk/annoy us to no end it probibly would be a friendship not relationship

are you single lmao just jk thanks for letting us know

na, been with my girl for about 6 years

Jako- it's true for a lot of men .  I used to have huge beautiful boobs, and my dh loved em.  Then one of them tried to kill me last year, and now I don't have any.  I would think he would head for the hills, but turns out he loves me for me.  BUT- I know for a fact that even though he says he doesn't care, he can't wait for me to have reconstruction )

I got more legs and booty then i got boobs.. i got some.. just not HUGE ones.. so i'd have to find a man that appreciates what i got.. if i got with a man that prefers boobs overall.. i'd be so insecure that he would crave what i don't have.. it would bother me  :'(

Oh Imagin, I think chemistry and the overall relationship supercedes any of it.  Personally, now that I have had both back breaking breasts and none, I prefer the lighter version

Boobs are great.  But size does not matter to me.  Big ones can look at feel nice.  Small ones can look at feel nice.  Big one hangin' down to her knees do NOT look nice.  Boy tits on a woman don't look nice either.

LMAO Dr. Boy tits..ahahah

I don't got HUGE boobs either. I don't think it really matters to my husband at all. He's not a boob man.


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Truth of the matter is we just don't Usualy have our own, and we all know everyone wants neat looking things they don't have.  Size only matters when they are either WAY to big for body size, completely nonexistant, or pure muscle(thus making them pecks)

Trust me even if you only have bee-stings, we like them and usualy wouldn't have it any other way

To be blunt, the size of his equipment don't do a thing if he can't make me shiver with his touches and I, can't make him shaken from the desire with my touch...
He can mingle all he wants but nu~thi~ng ,whatsoever would work if he can't make my toes curl  up from the sensation of tingles. Thats, what I call the chemistry...

Wnanhee.....Just like the old saying.....

It's not the size of the stick, its the magic in the wand!  Or....its not the size of the boobs, its the magic in the hills!

...some thoughts about Him and Her....

A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.

A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need.

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.

A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.

A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.

To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

Married men live longer than single men; married men are also a lot more willing to die.

Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed. Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

A woman has the last word in any argument.  Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

There are two times when a man doesn't understand a woman: before marriage and after marriage.

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.

A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

ishin...
Ha ha ha!!!
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.

A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need.-----------------so true!

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.

A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.---------couldn't agree more!

Very true ish...

I am so glad to have you here with us!!!


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