I thought about this after i was approached by a young man who was 19 and i wanted to know your views on couples where the partner was 10 to 20 years the others junior.I saw a show they did on Ashton and Demi and i came to the conclusion that to each their own.Who am i to pass judgment if they are both consenting adults and not under the age of 18.I never considered it as far as i am concerned i like older men and in saying that my last boyfriend was 50 and im 36.
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lol Rena...
My husband is 13 years younger than me. The one before that was 18 years younger. And I had a nice relationship with a young man 22 years younger than me. I didn't go looking for younger men, nor were they necessarily looking for older women. It has it's good and bad, as do all relationships. You do notice some generation gaps at times. -
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You should be complimented that a 19 year old was interested. I think (and I'm sure many men on here think) you're pretty also.
Above all be true to yourself, Rena. If you prefer older men, don't "settle" for anything else.
(Personally I think that's why marriages are at a 60% divorce rate-because one partner "settles".) -
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- at Jul 09, 11, 11:46:31 AM
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Remember the story of 'How Stella got her groove back'?
I believe there is nothing wrong with older women dating younger men or vice verse that is as long as they are not carrying school backpacks(legal age).... because after all, age is just a number right?
I have seen many couples with age differences and they are just like every other couples.
Every couples have ups and down from time to time even those who appear to be perfect for each other...what matters most is... you in the right relationship with the right person! -
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It has always been alright for men to have a young pretty girl on their arm. Why should it make a difference for us chicks?
We have to live by our desires and wants and forget what others will think. I applaud anyone who dances to their own beat.
I say go for it ;)! Teach these young fellas a few tricks and they will never want to date anyone younger again!
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Good for you Rena! Turn those young heads and enjoy the fun! But spend your heart on a man of any age that is the one for you!
I have to admit I have gone both ways... oooppppps...not that way!...
I mean I was once married to a man 34 years my senior, he loved to gamble, and he loved having a pretty young wife... I loved to gamble, and I loved being a pretty young wife he could show off... he is no longer with us though...
I have also been married to a man 15 years my junior... we were a wonderful match... we drove truck together... 24/7 in that small space and it was grand... I have a poem on poetry.com describing a bit of that...
Love is where you find it!
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wow guys i really love this thread im glad i asked the question because i know some people would have a very close minded view on this and its good to see you guys are able to think outside the box.Maybe one day i will experience (cougar )dom (a older woman dating a younger man)but for now i will enjoy the single life.
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Good for you Rena! Turn those young heads and enjoy the fun! But spend your heart on a man of any age that is the one for you!
I have to admit I have gone both ways... oooppppps...not that way!...
I mean I was once married to a man 34 years my senior, he loved to gamble, and he loved having a pretty young wife... I loved to gamble, and I loved being a pretty young wife he could show off... he is no longer with us though...
I have also been married to a man 15 years my junior... we were a wonderful match... we drove truck together... 24/7 in that small space and it was grand... I have a poem on poetry.com describing a bit of that...
Love is where you find it! lol katt both ways indeed jk
<3
katt
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Probably best Rena.. I just wanted to point out that age is just a number but at 19 or early twenties the person in question has barely started to become an adult. I've had a few "relationships" with young women, and from my experience , sure the sex and softness on the eye is great.. when i TAUGHT them. But mostly concludes in some drama. They are rootin tootin pootin youngins that need to experience relationships to learn life with others .. Ya have to ask yourself , Am I ready for a most troubling relationship that i will have to teach someone to be a man or woman, or Will i have the patience for this youngin to become a man or woman?
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As long as both parties are over 18 and there is NO manipulation or coersion, then "whatever floats your boat."
I was a family therapist for years. There is no evidence that age differences in a healthy relationship are a problem. Unless it is a guy 25 who wants kids with a woman 55....issues like that. Trust me, folks, there are PLENTY of couples the exact same age who are screwed up!
For me, I regularly take collge age women to nice lunches. (Honest, lunch ONLY!) Why? They look great and have a fresh attitude about things. And they talk about interesting, new things. What happens when I take women my age to lunch? (30s-40s) Most of the time they want to bitch about ex husbands or their bratty kids. Or bitch they don't have enough money.
Case in point- I recently took a woman, 41, to lunch. A nice lunch of the $25 a head variety. What did she talk about???? Her 19 year old son who sits at home and plays Xbox all day (and her enabling him!), how much her ex owes her for back child support, and that she has bills. You know, the hell with that! Give me the hot, smart art student any day!!! -
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Age is just a number
blue
I totally agree with Blue here, age is nothing more than a number. Now let's be honest Rena, I wouldn't say that you are older than 25 by looking at that picture and that proves once again that age is just a number. Numbers are important in Bingo as Froggy surely knows but not in a relationship -
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wow thanks Johnny now i wish my bones felt 25 lol
Age is just a number
blue
I totally agree with Blue here, age is nothing more than a number. Now let's be honest Rena, I wouldn't say that you are older than 25 by looking at that picture and that proves once again that age is just a number. Numbers are important in Bingo as Froggy surely knows but not in a relationship
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l also have to agree that age doesn't really matter. And this comes from a person that lives in a somewhat conservative environment.
As long as you two are compatible, have things in common or just have that special spark that keeps you going, there should be nothing to stop you, let alone age! -
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lol.. well when you put it in that direction Luke .. i'm 41 and would be thrilled to date a 20 something , a 19 .. eek wow almost creepy but recently a friend of ours ( mine and my ex gf's ) turned 19 and wowzers to think i came that close hmm .. but all in all i have to think myself that i am a very thought-out and deep thinking person in my facet of being , and have standards in place for almost any of life's possibilities that could arise, with that said i still think i would have a hard time to actually go through and maintain a relationship with a woman 20 years my younger, perhaps it is different man to woman than woman to man .. anyone else have the same opion to that ?
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I think nothing is wrong with it. The only time I don't like an age difference is with the very young.
My 8th grader pointed to a couple lounging in front of his school. She's in 8th grade and her boyfriend is 17. She's pregnant. How lovely. *insert sarcasm* I was yelling at my son because I couldn't find the ball field... after all, isn't that his responsibility. After he told me about the preggers gal, I realized I was being too demanding.....after all that mom still let her child hang out with the older guy. OY.
Regarding your siggy Rena. We are all getting older... but we also are getting better. -
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lol.. well when you put it in that direction Luke .. i'm 41 and would be thrilled to date a 20 something , a 19 .. eek wow almost creepy but recently a friend of ours ( mine and my ex gf's ) turned 19 and wowzers to think i came that close hmm .. but all in all i have to think myself that i am a very thought-out and deep thinking person in my facet of being , and have standards in place for almost any of life's possibilities that could arise, with that said i still think i would have a hard time to actually go through and maintain a relationship with a woman 20 years my younger, perhaps it is different man to woman than woman to man .. anyone else have the same opion to that ?
Since I'm in my *cough* 40's, it would be weird to date a 20yr old. It's my daughters age and should be a guy for her....not the mom, ya know? Same for my husband. I don't care if he comments on how a gal looks/her outfit/hottness or whatever but, if she were in her teens or 20, I would point out that's our daughters age. Puts a creep factor to it. Just my opinion. -
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Yeah, it's a little strange, but I have err...had relationships with:
1 guy who was older than my daughter, closer to my age, who used to live with her (I knew him first, and didn't approve much of him being with my much younger daughter, but this relationship was after they were no longer together for a long time). My daughter kinda pushed us together.
1 guy who was one year older than her that *almost* had a relationship with her. I met him when he was 9 years old - he was the son of my bosses, and I re-met him in his 20s. God, he was gorgeous and sweet. We became best friends, and he was killed when he was 26. He was cousin to the first guy I mentioned.
And also, my husband met my daughter first and had a big thing for her. She didn't have feelings for him, though. He is right in between our ages. My daughter is 33 now. He is 41, I'm 53. Met him like 4 years ago.
Gosh, I sound awful, maybe, to some people, but at the times and places and situations, well, things happened. I'm no creep either, and didn't go looking for these things to occur. They just did. It's kinda the opposite of what y'all are saying. It never occurred to me to notice how attractive, etc.. any of these guys were and then all of a sudden, little sparks flew. I have no idea what made these men even glance my way, guess it was my personality? Should I add ?? -
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Just had to come back to this thread and let everyone know...the other night a friend of Jake's was over, and as usual, was drinking a six-pack. Normally I let Jake and his buddies take over the living room and do their thing, but Jake is gone, and I accepted a beer. The guy is 27. He stayed about 30 minutes, and I took my 53 year old self to get ready to go to sleep when he came back knocking on the door. He asked me for a "massage". I quickly figured out it was one of Doc's type massages he was after. I almost laughed my ass off. I finally threw in the "I'm married" card after first declining then getting the perpetual come-on. He said "oh, yeah. You are married. I'm married too!" geez... I've never been smart on the flirting issue - I'm oblivious to most of what is going on in-between the lines, but I guess I have to quit answering the door in my nightgown. I thought that would actually scare people off, but Noooooooo.... lol
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Gosh, I sound awful, maybe, to some people, but at the times and places and situations, well, things happened. I'm no creep either, and didn't go looking for these things to occur. They just did.
I don't think you sound awful at all, chilly. Sounds like you still have a relationship with your daughter. That's all that matters and too, that you're happy.
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